My First Walk With Molly

I took Molly, my most recent foster dog, for a walk today. It’s a simple thing, and yet it felt momentous, a little like giving birth.
I’ve walked hundreds of dogs, most of them rescues, and I haven’t met one yet who didn’t enjoy a good walk. But Molly is different. I had no idea if I could even get her to go along with the idea, much less be happy about it.
Molly’s story with us started a few months ago when the Franklin County Humane Society received an email from the county shelter saying that Molly was showing “aggressive behavior” and would have to leave the shelter – followed by the implied or else. Or else means her life would be ended there.
We had seen her picture before receiving that email. She was a beautiful Aussie cross with expressive wide brown eyes that clearly showed her worry in being at the county shelter. That was all we had to go on when a Franklin County Humane Society volunteer went down to get her.
In the days that followed, we learned that Molly was very afraid of people she did not know and showed her fear by growling when someone new approached her. Men in hats seemed to be especially upsetting.
In the weeks that followed, Molly was adopted and returned when she did significant damage to a living room after being left alone in the house. We then concluded that she had severe separation anxiety. None of these things bode well for being adopted. After discussing her case with our veterinarian, we decided to try an anxiety medication for her.
That was when I brought her home with me to foster. I wasn’t exactly sure what she would need, and since I have a full house of my own, I opted to let her hang out in what we call our doggie clubhouse, a nice little room of her own that has a doggie door to a fenced yard.
For the first two days, she felt better evaluating me outside. Her growl was more question than threat, and I sat with her, tossing her cookies and letting her set the agenda. I did this several times over the next couple days, and at some point, she no longer felt the need to growl at me. We just hung out looking at each other, eating animal crackers and getting to know one another.
On the third day, I moved our meeting inside the clubhouse, sitting in a chair and again letting her set the agenda, coming in and out of the doggie door to take cookies from me as she wanted. We danced this dance for twenty or thirty minutes before she decided to sit down in front of me and take the cookies without going outside to eat them. I still made no move to pet her. Five or six cookies later, she moved closer to the chair and lay down on her side, exposing her belly for me to rub.
Now that I had her permission, I stroked her soft fur over and over. She flinched a couple of times and then relaxed, clearly enjoying the petting. And just like that, we were friends. Hard-earned, but oh, so worth it.
I did this again the next day. It took less time this go-round for us to get to the rubbing stage. And so today, I decided to try a walk.
Molly was uneasy when she saw the leash, but I felt she trusted me enough now that I could force the issue a little more, and so I did. As soon as we walked out the door into the cool evening air, she became instantly infused with happiness, a prance in her walk, her tail wagging.
The sun was setting as we strolled through the field where I like to walk my other dogs. Some deer hopped up from the edge of the woods and scooted across the grass in front of us. Molly perked her ears and looked up at me as if to ask whether she could chase them or not. “We’ll just watch,” I said, and she seemed content with that.
I’ve had rewarding experiences like this with other foster dogs, but none more so than Molly. I don’t know what happened to her before she came to us, but I know she has reason to be cautious. I also now know that she is a dog who once you earn her trust, she will give you everything she has to give. I hope a forever person is just ahead on Molly’s horizon. Hers is the most rewarding kind of love of all, the kind you have to be deserving of.
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Molly is currently interviewing families. Please see her petfinder.com link at:
http://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/22041357
Written by Inglath Cooper


























